Unfortunately, my life did not get any easier. My mother and I moved to another state and I fell into the wrong crowd. Because my mother was an alcoholic, I turned to friends twice my age who got me involved in drugs and I turned away from my Christian values.

My life was full of tragic mistakes, including drugs and unplanned pregnancies. One of those pregnancies ended in an abortion.

Taking this horrific tragic event and finding something positive from it has been a challenge for me and has led me to write about my experience in order to help other women whohave gone through the similar experiences.

I am happily married now with four grown children, one grandson and currently reside in Birmingham, AL.

As I share my thoughts with you each month, just know that I understand and can surely empathize with your situation. The effects of abortion are long reaching and I want to provide comfort and support through my words.

Please click below to the comments section to add your story or comments.

There is nothing like talking to somebody who's been in your shoes. Debra wants to hear from you. Your story or comments could be the turning point for someone else. There is no better way to live than to be a blessing.

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Woe is me for my hurt! my wound is grievous; but I said, Truly this is a grief, and I must bear it.
Jeremiah 10:19 KJV

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