wow i am so very sorry to here about ur teen years... U r so brave to still stay in the same house hold as them and still have know anger towards ur sister.i have 4 sisters in total and we fight like enemies i forgive each one of them nut there is just one that holds her grudges for life and its over he said she said stuff nothing painfull like your situation. i hope and pray one day she will come around
Reparation by: Lynn Mosher
Oh, Cheryl, this must have been so crushing. I have one brother and two sisters and we are a very loving family. I cannot imagine how awful this must be. I'm so glad the relationship is being repaired. May the Lord bless you both.
Forgive, Forget and Still Talks Like Nothing Happens. by: CornW
Hi
Talking about FORGIVENESS, in the past I had to FORGIVE 1 of my 2 eldest sisters.
One of my 2 sisters husbands RAPE me(repeatly)IN FRONT of my sister.
She autually locked the bedroom door, watch how her husband repeately raped me and she sitting on their bed doing nothing, just wacthing!!!
When she thought I had enough, she unlocked the door. I went and bathed, went to bed with such terrible pain. The Saturday morning I still went with them both into town for the whole day with still terrible tummy pains etc...
Afterwards my sister said to me "She love me so much that she didn't mind sharing her drunk husband with me".
The Saturday afternoon I went back home, kept quiet about it for a few years, until I met my husband when I was 19yrs old.
I still talks to her (don't see her often because we are in 2 different countries now for the last 3yrs) and I dont hold anything against her, her husband died a few years ago.
