I can't stand it anymore.  Things have to change or I'll lose my mind!  I can't go one more day like this! 


EVERYBODY knows how you feel.  You are definitely not alone.  Everyday I hear from people who are struggling to change.

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Hi, I'm Karen, the author and founder of this site.



I recently talked to Sara, a hard working married mother of 3 teens.  


Sara has a very bad temper.  She lashes out at her husband and kids whenever things don't go her way.  And then remorse sets in.  

She's tried so hard so many times to control her temper.  But each time she  inevitably loses control and the process starts all over again.  


Sara's not happy, her kids aren't happy, and her husband isn't happy.  And Linda walks around feeling bad, telling herself how badly she's failed yet again.  

Why does this keep happening?





I Can't Help It!


The truth is, Sara isn't a bad person.  She's not deliberately trying to torture her husband and kids.  She wants to change.  She needs to change.  The problem is that she doesn't know how.

Sara is acting the way she does for one simple reason.  She SEES herself with a bad temper.  Sara's "normal" is to react out of anger.  She automatically lashes out without having to think about it.  In her mind, it's "like her" to yell, scream, and cry.

And Sara goes on with her life every day, wanting to change, hoping to change.



 

You mean, I don't have to stay this way forever?


How do you suppose Sara would feel to wake up one morning to know the change she so desperately seeks is COMPLETELY DONE?


Not just started, but done, so she didn't have to worry about it any more?  

Instead of anger, yelling, and frustration, Sara handled things calmly, in control, and could that even be a smile on her face?

AND, what if she did it automatically, without having to "try hard" to do it?  Can't you just feel that sense of relief in Sara's heart?




Me TOO!


I know I can.  I know EXACTLY how Sara feels. I've been there and done that, just like Sara.  Only for me, it was my health.


I wanted to make changes in my health more than you can imagine.   I wanted to be a better parent, a better wife, AND be more organized.

My list of the changes I wanted to make was endless!

And there wasn't one logical reason why I shouldn't make the changes.

And I could do it for awhile.   I could TRY HARD to grab hold of myself and try to force some sense into me!

Isn't that what you do too?  You make up your mind that you're going to make a change and then go out and "try hard" to make it happen.  You're dedicated to the change.  You WANT the change.

And you might even have some success.  But then you let your guard down.  You relax and just "be yourself".  And before you know it, you find yourself right back where you were before, in your same old behavior patterns.

What happened?  How did you go from completely commited to the change right back to the behavior you so desperately were trying to get rid of?

Is there something wrong with you?

Of course not!  You're no different than millions of other people who struggle with making changes.  It's hard for them too.  Why is that?




And the Answer is...


The reason we all struggle so much is because even though we "try hard" to make the change, we're actually trying to force the change from the outside in.

God never intended for it to be that way.  God's way is to start on the inside and let the change work it's way out.  God's way is to change what comes automatically.   And the great news is that He's even given us the tools to do it!






Is this you too?

What if you could help your marriage?


What if you could be more patient and loving to your kids?

What if you could control your bad temper?

What if you could stop being jealous?

What if you could become more organized?

What if you could be more patient?

What if you could stop criticizing and gossiping about others?

Can't you just see yourself walking around feeling positively great, KNOWING that all these things you've struggled with for years, are FINALLY behind you?  And all you did was work with the tools God gave you and you did it without having to "TRY HARD" to make it happen?





Perhaps it's time to see what God says about how to make changes in your life.


The answers are in my new ebook. It's called "A Change of Heart...Making Changes that Line up with God's Plan".




This ebook starts from where you are TODAY.  It shows you how you got in the position you're in, and how to get to where you want to be.
 

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"So many Christians blame every problem in their
lives on God's will. This book forces us to take a
long hard look in the mirror and recognize how our own choices, and even our negative thoughts, have made the beds we're currently lying in.

Then, Karen guides us on a personal journey to a
place of Total Surrender to God that opens us up
for His Spirit to begin changing us from the inside
out. She reminds us that when we seek first the
kingdom of God, all other things will begin to fall into place."

Ameerah Lewis, author of "Becoming God's Masterpiece".






I know you're probably thinking, "What can this book possibly tell me that will make any difference at all?

All the information in this book comes from many years of my own experiences, research, learning, AND directly from God's Word.


I discovered that God already provided us with tools we need to make the changes we want to make.

You can't change on your own.  God HAS to be a part of any permanent change.   So ain't it GREAT that He's already given you the key?

 

"A Change of Heart" teaches you how to stop all the negative, bad habits and attitudes, and start filling up with the positive, life giving right ones.  You can see the results you want....and you can start immediately.  

There is no preparation time, and the only other thing you'll need to get started is a Bible.  That's it.  







Take a closer look at what's in this ebook:

How Did I get into this Mess?
  • How did your thoughts and attitudes get into your head in the first place?  Whose "truth" are you listening to and who do you believe?  What does God say about you?
  • What does forgiveness have to do with making changes in my life?  What happens when you get out of your own way?  Just a taste from this section of the ebook:

"It is amazing what can happen when you simply make the decision to do what God tells you to do, not BECAUSE of your feelings, but despite your feelings.  When you step out in faith in that way, God will take your decision and build on it."
  • What does God say about His will for your life?  How do you find it and what do you need to change? What are you going to be when you grow up?  Here's what the ebook says:

"As you seek God about your purpose, don’t expect to make a bunch of plans and just expect God to bless them.  You’ll do much better if you pray first, then plan, instead of the other way around."



The Stumbling Blocks to Change
  • Your Past.  Does your past always have to beat you down? How do you face what's been so you can move on to what will be?   What does God say about your past?
  • Jealousy.  How can you stop this from controlling your life? What price are you willing to pay to get what you want?  Why isn't God's plan the same for you as it is for somebody else?
  • Fear.  How do you know if it's fear that's holding you back?  How do you face your fears?  What if you feel like you just don't mearsure up?
  • Procrastination.  How many blessings have you missed because you put things off?  What difference can it make to wait even a single day?


"In order for you to get really great at self control, you have to start using it. It’s not easy to get started. Self control is like patience. The only times you can practice is when you really need it!

  • Your Attitude.  How did your attitudes get in your head in the first place?  What difference does your attitude make?  How do you get a "new" attitude?
  • Your Mouth.  Do you have "complainers" DNA?  What kinds of words come out of your mouth?  Do you build others up or tear others down?  How do you turn it around?
  • Patience…or the Lack Thereof.  Are you the kind of person who has to have everything right now?  Where did that mentality come from?  What is your lack of patience doing to the people around you?


Can Anything Help You Change?
  • God's Unconditional Love.  Do you believe that God loves you? Or do you think you aren't deserving of His love because of your past?  How do you put these negative feelings away so you can experience God's love?
  • Hearing from God. What does it take to successfully hear from God?  How does God usually talk to you?  What if you miss what God is saying? 
  • Forgiveness.  Are you bitter, resentful, or angry at somebody in your life?  What do you do with all these negative feelings? What happens if you don't forgive?
  • Prayer.  How can you pray simply, yet effectively?  What are your motives when you pray?  Are there certain things that should be included in your prayers?  Here is one of the prayer concepts from the ebook:
     
 "God wants an ongoing relationship with you and that means you eventually come to a place where seeking God’s face is more important than seeking God’s hand."

  • BELIEVE it Before You'll Ever SEE it.  Can you really see yourself as a changed person?  How can you start believing when everything around you is opposite of what you want?


It's Time to Change
  • How Do I Start?  What are the specific steps?  How do I start changing on the inside?
  • Let me show you how to do it!



There is an amazing peace that comes from knowing you're doing what God calls you to do. And I can guarantee that becoming a better spouse, a better parent, and a more loving Christian IS what God is calling you to do.

I've been where you are.  I wanted to change.  I tried HARD to change.  And to be honest, there are many areas in my own life where I'm still changing,  I'm a work in progress, just like you.





Now you can make all the life

 changes you want for
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I loved this book.  I felt like I was always struggling in one way or another.  After reading this book, now I see that I can make changes if I just follow the plan.

Thanks for this book!

Carol from St. Paul, MN

I loved this book!

I felt like it was written by someone who understands me, someone that’s been in my shoes.
 
Karen’s conversational style of writing, sense of humor about herself, and her pure willingness to be honest about her own personal challenges makes this book such a joy to read.

The bonus is that she provides actual tools to help you get started making changes in your life based on biblical promises. 

Regards,

Linda from Mandan, ND



                   
But why should you have to learn all the lessons I've already learned the hard way?  Skip the learning curve and go right to the solutions.  Here's your chance to start over.  You don't have to TRY HARD to change any more.  
 
 

When you use the tools God gave you, change will finally come and you'll be so glad when it's FINALLY done.

Imagine how it will feel when your family sees how you've changed.


Just think...when you lay your head on your pillow at night, you'll know God has done an AMAZING work on the inside of you
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       AND, to make it even easier to get started...


BONUS 1:

I recently taught many of the concepts from this ebook at an online Christian conference.  I will include a download of this session completely free, so you can see how you can start applying the concepts in your life immediately.  


BONUS  2:

AND... In order to help get you started making changes EVEN FASTER, you will get our Quick Start Guide for Making Life Changes.  

Quick start guide

This guide will jumpstart your progress.  It outlines the main process to change and helps you get started right away.  This guide is a fantastic companion to the book.


Bonus 3:  


You also receive access to all the "Print & Pray" Prayers from our website.  



Print & Pray Ebook


www.christian-books-for-women.com is filled with topic articles to help you grow.  Many of the pages contain prayers you can use in your daily prayer time.  They are designed to give you a real connection in the areas where you need help.

This ebook comes with a No-Questions-Asked Guarantee.  If you're not satisfied, just email me within 30 days of your date of purchase and I'll issue your 100% refund immediately.  And, you can keep the "Print & Pray" Prayers for free.

Your  ebook purchase is 100% safe and secure - and 100% risk free.

Immediately after your purchase, you can download your ebook and your "Print & Pray" Prayers and start learning how to make real changes within days.

This ebook is in the Adobe PDF file format.  If your computer doesn't have the Adobe Reader software, you can easily   install it for free.

 


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