I can't stand it anymore.
Things have to change or I'll lose my
mind!
I can't go one more day like this!
EVERYBODY
knows how you feel. You are definitely not alone.
Everyday I hear from people who are struggling to change.
Hi, I'm
Karen, the author and
founder of this site.
I recently talked to Sara, a hard working married mother of 3 teens.
Sara
has a very bad temper. She lashes out at her husband and
kids whenever things don't go her way. And then remorse sets
in.
She's
tried so hard so many times to control her temper. But
each time she inevitably loses control and the process starts
all over
again.
Sara's not happy, her
kids aren't happy, and her husband isn't happy.
And Linda walks around feeling bad, telling herself how badly
she's failed yet again.
Why does this keep happening?
I Can't Help It!
The
truth is, Sara isn't a bad person. She's not deliberately
trying to torture her husband and kids. She wants to change.
She needs to change. The problem is that she
doesn't know how.
Sara is acting the way she does for one simple reason. She
SEES herself with a bad temper. Sara's "normal" is to react
out of anger. She automatically lashes out without having to
think about it. In her mind, it's "like her" to yell, scream,
and cry.
And Sara goes on with her
life
every day,
wanting to change, hoping to change.
You mean, I don't have to
stay this way forever?
How
do you suppose Sara
would feel to wake up one morning to know the change she so desperately
seeks is COMPLETELY DONE?
Not
just started, but done, so she didn't have to worry about
it any
more?
Instead
of
anger, yelling, and frustration, Sara handled things calmly,
in control, and could that even be a smile on her face?
AND,
what
if she did it automatically, without having to "try hard" to
do it? Can't you just feel that sense of relief in Sara's
heart?
Me TOO!
I
know I can. I
know EXACTLY how Sara
feels. I've been there and done that, just like Sara. Only
for
me, it was my health.
I
wanted to make changes in my health more than
you can imagine. I wanted to be a better parent, a better
wife, AND be more organized.
My list
of
the changes I wanted
to make was endless!
And
there wasn't one
logical reason why I shouldn't make the changes.
And
I could
do it for awhile.
I could TRY HARD
to grab hold of myself and try to force some sense into me!
Isn't that
what you do too? You make up your mind that you're going to
make a change and then go out and "try hard" to make it happen.
You're
dedicated to the change. You WANT
the change.
And you might even have some success. But then you let your
guard down. You relax and just "be yourself". And
before you know it, you find yourself right back where you were before,
in your same old behavior patterns.
What happened? How did you go from completely commited to the
change right back to the behavior you so desperately were trying to get
rid of?
Is there something wrong with you?
Of course not! You're no different than millions of other
people who struggle with making changes. It's hard for them
too. Why is that?
And the Answer
is...
The
reason we all struggle so much is because even though we "try hard" to
make the change, we're actually trying to force the change from the
outside in.
God never intended for it to be that way. God's way is to
start on the inside and let the change work it's way out.
God's way is to change what comes automatically.
And the great news is that He's even given us the tools to do it!
Is this
you too?
What
if you could
help
your marriage?
What
if you could be more patient and loving to your kids?
What if
you
could
control
your bad temper?
What if
you
could
stop
being jealous?
What if
you
could
become
more organized?
What if
you
could
be more
patient?
What if
you
could
stop
criticizing and gossiping about others?
Can't
you just see yourself walking around feeling positively great, KNOWING
that all these things you've struggled with for years, are FINALLY
behind you? And all you did was work with the tools God gave
you and you did it without having to "TRY HARD" to make
it happen?
Perhaps
it's
time to see what God says about how to make changes in your life.
The
answers
are in my new ebook. It's called "A
Change of Heart...Making Changes that Line up with God's Plan".
This
ebook starts from where you are TODAY. It shows you how you
got in the position you're in, and how to get to where you want to be.
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"So
many Christians blame
every problem in their
lives
on God's will. This book forces us to take a
long
hard look in the mirror and recognize how our own
choices, and even our negative thoughts, have made
the beds we're currently lying in.
Then,
Karen guides us on a personal journey to a
place
of Total Surrender to God that opens us up
for
His Spirit to begin changing us from the inside
out.
She reminds us that when we seek first the
kingdom
of God, all
other things will begin to fall into place."
Ameerah
Lewis, author of
"Becoming God's Masterpiece".
I
know you're probably thinking, "What can this book possibly tell me
that will make any difference at all?
All the information in this book comes from many years of my own
experiences, research, learning, AND directly from God's Word.
I
discovered that
God already provided us with tools we need to make the changes
we want to make.
You
can't change on your own. God HAS to be a part of any
permanent
change. So ain't it GREAT that He's already given you the
key?
"A
Change of Heart"
teaches you how to stop all the negative, bad habits and
attitudes, and start filling up with the positive, life giving
right ones. You can see the results you want....and you can
start immediately.
There is no preparation
time, and the only other thing you'll need to
get started is a Bible. That's it.
Take a closer look
at what's in this ebook:
How Did
I get into this Mess?
How
did your
thoughts and attitudes get into your head in the first place?
Whose "truth" are you listening
to and who do you believe? What does God say about you?
What
does forgiveness have to do with making changes in my life?
What happens when you get out of your own way?
Just a taste from this section of the ebook:
"It is amazing what can happen when you simply make the decision to do
what God tells you to do, not BECAUSE of your feelings, but despite
your feelings. When you step out in faith in that way, God
will
take your decision and build on it."
What
does God
say
about His will for your life? How do you find it and what do
you need to change? What are you going to be when you grow up?
Here's what the ebook says:
"As
you seek God about your purpose, don’t expect to make a bunch of
plans and just expect God to bless them. You’ll
do much better if you pray first, then plan, instead of the other way
around."
The Stumbling Blocks to Change
Your
Past.
Does your past always have to beat you down? How do you face
what's been so you can move on to what will be? What does
God say about your past?
Jealousy.
How can you stop this from controlling your life? What price
are you willing to pay to get what you want? Why isn't God's
plan the same for you as it is for somebody else?
Fear.
How do you know if it's fear that's holding you back?
How do you face your fears? What if you feel like
you just don't mearsure up?
Procrastination.
How many blessings have you missed because you put things
off? What difference can it make to wait even a single day?
"In
order for you to get really great at self control, youhave
to start
using it. It’s not easy to get started. Selfcontrol
is
like
patience. The only times you can practice is when you really need it!
Your
Attitude. How did your attitudes get in your head in the
first place? What difference does your attitude make?
How do you get a "new" attitude?
Your
Mouth. Do you have "complainers" DNA? What kinds of
words come out of your mouth? Do you build others up or tear
others down? How do you turn it around?
Patience…or
the Lack Thereof. Are you the kind of person who has to have
everything right now? Where did that mentality come from?
What is your lack of patience doing to the people around you?
Can Anything Help You Change?
God's
Unconditional Love. Do you believe that God loves you? Or do
you think you aren't deserving of His love because of your past?
How do you put these negative feelings away so you can
experience God's love?
Hearing
from God. What does it take to successfully hear from God?
How does God usually talk to you? What if you miss
what God is saying?
Forgiveness.
Are you bitter, resentful, or angry at somebody in your life?
What do you do with all these negative feelings? What happens
if you don't forgive?
Prayer.
How can you pray simply, yet effectively? What are
your motives when you pray? Are there certain things that
should be included in your prayers? Here is one of the prayer
concepts from the ebook:
"God
wants an ongoing relationship with you and that means you eventually
come to a place where seeking
God’s face is more important than seeking God’s
hand."
BELIEVE
it Before You'll Ever SEE it. Can you really see yourself as
a changed person? How can you start believing when everything
around you is opposite of what you want?
It's Time to Change
How
Do
I Start? What are the specific steps? How do I
start changing on the inside?
Let me show you how to do it!
There is an amazing peace that comes from knowing you're doing what God
calls you to do. And I can guarantee that becoming a better
spouse, a better parent, and a more loving Christian IS what God is
calling you to do.
I've been where you are. I wanted to change. I
tried HARD to change. And to be honest, there are many areas
in my own life where I'm still changing, I'm a work in
progress, just like you.
Now
you
can make all the life changes
you want for only
$10.95
(for a limited time)
I loved this book.
I felt like I was always struggling in one way or another.
After reading this book, now I see that I can make changes if
I just follow the plan.
Thanks for this book!
Carol
from St. Paul, MN
I
loved this book!
I
felt like it was written by someone who understands me,
someone that’s been in my shoes.
Karen’s
conversational style of writing, sense of humor about herself,
and her pure willingness to be honest about her own personal challenges
makes this book such a joy to read.
The
bonus is that she provides actual tools to help you get started
making changes in your life based on biblical promises.
Regards,
Linda
from Mandan, ND
But why
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way? Skip the learning curve and go right to the solutions.
Here's your chance to start over. You don't have to
TRY HARD to change any more.
When you
use the tools God gave you, change will finally come and you'll be so
glad when it's FINALLY done.
Imagine
how it will feel when your family sees how you've changed.
Just think...when you lay your head on your pillow at night, you'll
know God has done an AMAZING work on the inside of you.
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AND...
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www.christian-books-for-women.com
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pages
contain prayers you can use in your daily prayer time. They
are
designed to give you a real connection in the areas where you need
help.
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