Decision Making

by Sue
(Tampa, fl)

Hi Karen:

I have been struggling for the past few months trying to make a decision that is truly life changing for me.

I live in Florida and have for the past 27 yrs. My entire family lives here and we are very close. Recently my fiance received an offer to move to Panama in Central America.

Before I go any further, let me just say we have been together for 17 yrs and love each other unconditionally. He would be will to go without me and just send me his pay checks to take care of the bills, but really wants me with him ideally.

I have one daughter who is 22yrs old and has proved herself to be nothing more than self centered and has no concern if I stay or go. However, I do have my parents and siblings that would back me on any decision I make regardless of how much I know they would miss me,and I them.

Everything so far has pointed to me going and things are happening out of my control. Such as my hours being cut at work, someone out of the blue asking to rent my house, the owner of the company my fiance is going to work for has offered us a free home with all utilities paid, with a jeep for transportion, and many other very odd things all pointing to me leaving. I can't help but feel these are all small acts of God telling me to go, but I still sit here with much doubt.

What would you suggest?

Thanks for any input, it is truly appreciated.
Sue