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feelings for a pastor

Hi I have been struggling with feelings for my pastor for 4 years I just some advice on what to do and how to make these feelings go away when they keep growing

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Jan 14, 2010
 What's right is right
by: Karen

Hi Tracy,

I've had three questions about finding the right mate in the last two days. There must be something in the water. :)

The only way you're going to know if there is really something between you is to ask him out for coffee or to a church function or some other neutral place. If he agrees to go, then see where the relationship leads.

If he declines, then you'll know where you stand. Four years is a really long time to be hung up on one person. Finding out where you stand would seem to be pretty important so you can get on with your life one way or the other.

Tracy, I'm answering the other two questions about finding the right mate next, so you might want to check them out right on this page.

All the best,

Karen
Jan 13, 2010
 feelings for a pastor
by: Anonymous

Hi its tracy he's not married he's single I been a member of this church since I was a baby my grandparents were deacons and deaconess he's only been with us for 4 years the problem is I saw his halo and was completley taken by him we always make strong eye contact but now it seems that he is nervous around me he has a strong relationship with my 5 year old daughter and my parents but he shuns me pls help me its to much for me to bear I have prayed to god but my feelings have gotten stronger over the years I don't know wat to do I need peace with this :(
Jan 13, 2010
 Run, Don't Walk
by: Karen

I think I read somewhere that developing feelings for your pastor or even your priest is not uncommon.

However, if your pastor is married or you are married, OR if you have feelings for a priest, it is VERY important for you to go to another church. Get away from this situation and don't look back.

Nothing good can come from this. It will only lead to a very bad result. So my advice is to find another church.

Blessings,

Karen

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