My husband disappeared for three days now. the onky message i got from him is that he will call me from a different number. he works in a different country and so we call each other literally eve hour however seems like all of a sudden he decided to disappear for god knows what reason. I was in total distress as though he died! and yes now i am in total shock. god is my only refuge
Time is our friend... by: Anonymous
Well my husband left 3 weeks ago this Friday and I have not heard from him at all. We have had battles but I never new they were this bad. I was doing a few things for him around the corner and he walked in and handed me the key..Without a word I went home and he took a few things that did not belong to him. The type of things he took he wanted a reaction. For the first time in my life I did not give him one. I did not call him or chase after him for my things back. I just let him walk because I remember hearing a few weeks prior to this if a man wants to walk away let him walk. And I did just that. I will not call. I will not chase him or beg him to stay. I have done nothing wrong and as soon as women realize we are not to blame all the time , we will be better off. Yes, I miss him.. But what do I miss? I can be with him and feel lonely and vise versa. I am focused on me and my daughter and that is all that matters. Sure the first thing someone wants to say is divorced. Well I am Apostolic and the bible tells me I can not get a divorce. I can not prove he is cheating he is 50 miles away,. So I wait on God. Waiting on God does not mean calling him and trying to fix it and see what is wrong. Waiting on God is letting it go and put my trust in Jesus. It takes Him so long to work because we are always in His way. So time is my friend. I'm waiting to see what God has in store for me and my daughter. What is for us is for us and what is not is not. I have learned we try to make people are life time but they are only meant for a season... Everybody stay encouraged.. Because God will take care of us as long as we believe and if we lack understanding just ask Him and He will give it to us.. Luck comes to those who plan it .. So be blessed put God first.
Time is our friend... by: Anonymous
Well my husband left 3 weeks ago this Friday and I have not heard from him at all. We have had battles but I never new they were this bad. I was doing a few things for him around the corner and he walked in and handed me the key..Without a word I went home and he took a few things that did not belong to him. The type of things he took he wanted a reaction. For the first time in my life I did not give him one. I did not call him or chase after him for my things back. I just let him walk because I remember hearing a few weeks prior to this if a man wants to walk away let him walk. And I did just that. I will not call. I will not chase him or beg him to stay. I have done nothing wrong and as soon as women realize we are not to blame all the time , we will be better off. Yes, I miss him.. But what do I miss? I can be with him and feel lonely and vise versa. I am focused on me and my daughter and that is all that matters. Sure the first thing someone wants to say is divorced. Well I am Apostolic and the bible tells me I can not get a divorce. I can not prove he is cheating he is 50 miles away,. So I wait on God. Waiting on God does not mean calling him and trying to fix it and see what is wrong. Waiting on God is letting it go and put my trust in Jesus. It takes Him so long to work because we are always in His way. So time is my friend. I'm waiting to see what God has in store for me and my daughter. What is for us is for us and what is not is not. I have learned we try to make people are life time but they are only meant for a season... Everybody stay encouraged.. Because God will take care of us as long as we believe and if we lack understanding just ask Him and He will give it to us.. Luck comes to those who plan it .. So be blessed put God first.
Me too by: Anonymous
My husband left a month ago, packed what he could take while I was work. Asked for a dissolution the next day, I said no. We have been married 18 years and have two children 7 and 9. He has seen our children once, and has not called. Does it get easier? I never could imagine this much pain.
I Feel your Pain by: Anonymous
My husband left our home 3 days ago which left me in total shock and disbeleif. I thought things were going fine but all of a sudden he leaves me a note (small) saying he does not want to mess up my life more than he already has. We have had financial problems but then I later realized he had a drug problem and that is where all our money was going. He has left without paying two months worth of bills. I can definetely feel your pain. My comfort is in the Lord to give me the strength to go on for my children. Whom by the way Love him to dearly even though he is a step dad. We have one son together and it devestates me to see how he has left him. All I know is that things happen for a reason and God has his purpose behind your situation and mine. Right now I dont know what it is but he will reveal his perfect plan. God Bless you and keep praying for strength and guidance so the Lord can help you thru this.
sorry to hear by: Anonymous
My husband of 22 years just left me. we have been togther for 28 years which included dating. I can feel your pain. I don't know your situation, but God does. My counselor told me I would have to wait for my husband to make a choice which could happen quickly or it could take years. Man, I feel for you. I pray for you in this comment. Don't loose hope and follow the Lord's guidance. He will guide you with His righteous right hand.
