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forgiving

by sandhya
(nepal)

One years ago my husband gave me emotional trouble. He had made a girlfriend and stay with her sometime(around one month).Aferthat she went to her work out of country. Now my husband loves me but I could not forgiven him and also that girl? I know that,if I could not forgive them i can't become close to God? What to do? How can I forgive them?

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Forgiveness isn't easy
by: Karen

Hi Sandhya,

Just because you want to forgive doesn't mean it will be easy. Forgiveness means you're choosing to release the other person from the hurt they've caused you. The decision to forgive is something you do, despite your feelings.

But that certainly doesn't mean you can just forget all that's happened and just move on. You were deeply hurt and it's going to take time and work to make things right.

Your husband is the one who is going to have to step up in this situation. It will be up to him to prove that he deserves your trust. That's not to say that you are to hold him emotionally hostage, but it does mean that together you can move forward, but it's going to require the effort and commitment from both of you.

Many times a Christian marriage counselor can put things in perspective so you both can see the role you need to play in the reconciliation. It's easier to use a third party to help establish the ground rules so you can build on something solid as you move forward.

Sandhya, it is possible to save your marriage, but it will only happen if both of you want it badly enough to sort it out and make it work.

Blessings,

Karen

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