Getting over Jealousy

by Shelly
(Chicago, Illinois)

I read your articles on jealousy and even though they sound good, I'm living with it and it's still really hard for me.

My husband looks at pornography on the internet and no matter what I say or do he won't stop. I've tried to get him to go to counseling, but he says I'm the one with the problem.

I feel so jealous and alone. Our kids don't understand what's going on and I don't know what to tell them.

What do you do about a mess like this?