Girlfriend broke up with me

by Bryan
(Pittsburgh)

I'm heartbroken and don't know where to turn. My girlfriend of 2 years told me that she was backing off all communication with me, "you obviously are waiting for me to change and it's not happening" she hasn't spoken to me in over a month. 6 months ago she told me that she did some soul searching and discovered that she has feelings more than just friendship with a guy that she has been friends with for 9 years. He has been telling her ever since her and I started dating, that his wife is filing for divorce and he needs to talk to her(my girlfriend). So when he needed to talk to her it was no problem for him to show up at her place. It started to feel to me that something was going on. She kept telling me there wasn't. I believe her, she has never lied before. A month ago he started up again with "I need to talk", the next day she told me she wants to separate. He has been to her place more in the last two weeks than I have in the past two months. She won't talk to me, respond to any attempt at communicating. I found out through court records, his wife never filed for divorce. He has been lying all along. Because he wants to be with my girlfriend in a sexual way. I've been asking God to help me through this, but I don't know if I'm asking the right way. I'm lost, I'm depressed, I'm not the happy guy I was before and I'm making everyone around me miserable. I need guidance...please help!