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how can i get my boyfriend back

by jessica
(arkansas)

I was once going with this guy who was all my type. everything was going good but until i went to the movies with these 2guys whom i was related to. so on that nite we had brokeup. I kept my phone on and answered his calls and eerything. But i mean i told him all them 3days b4 i went to the movies that i was going,and he sounded ok with it. but when i had got up there he was all cranky and stuff. Then we had brokeup cuz i couldnt come by there when i came from the movies cuz the driver of the car didnt wanna go. He was the best guy a gurl could ever have in her life. I pray everynight and I cry everynite because its hard to replace him. I dont want nan other guy except for him because its hard to find somebody like him to be in your life. When he was in jail he was calling me and the day b4 he got out he stop talking to me cuz his new girlfriend said so. shes 39yr olds with 6 kids and hes 18. I cant seem to forget bout him. I've tried calling him but he mustve been over the gurl house and he call hisself cussing me out and ya i still love him and it might sound crazy but ya i still do. i had a new boyfriend but i dumped him cuz i didnt feel right. i mean i know now how it feels to be felt cheated him. i pray everynite and i cry and beg i gotta have him back in my life. dont nobody understand the way i feel or how i feel cuz they not walking in my shoes. well somepeople understand what im going through. how can i get him back i started praying the other night u think that will help. PLEASE HELP ME HOW CAN I GET HIM BACK TO ME. I never prayed before because I never had any problems like this before. please help me sometimes i feel like committing suicide. and the gurl he call hisself with is cheating and he dont know it.he havent called me for 2wks. his gurl he called himself with is crazy she run him i mean she got him scared. i dont know what to do. im tryna g et over to where he stay which is in another town but i dont habe a way unless im with my dad. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! ARE THERE ANY SPELLS OR ANYTHING PLEASE HELP!!!! the last time i called him he threatened to go get his so called gurl to trytta whoop me cuz he thought i was playing on his phone but i wasnt. my life right now dont even seem worth living. so please help me

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how can i get my boyfriend back

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Jun 09, 2008
heres what happened
by: Jessica

i cant move on we still tryna talk its hard to explain if yall know where i lived and how the dudes where u could understand why i cant move on. deze dudes down here are macs and thats the only guy i had to accept me for me. i made 1 big mistake i pray everyday i hope he come back but im working with him

Jun 09, 2008
For Jessica
by: Anonymous

Hi Jessica,

I am so sorry to hear about the problems you're having with your boyfriend. When I was much younger I sometimes had such problems.

Sometimes in such a situation if you just leave him be and continue on with your life, one's boyfriend will return. If he doesn't return, you might be better off and it sounds like you have many others who care and are interested in you.

I have found in my experience with the opposite sex, that if I act disinterested in what they do or say, it often makes them eager to find out why I'm acting that way--and then they become more interested in me.

You might try that and also get to know others who you like and who like you--others who have the same interests as you and care about you.

Don't harm yourself in any way; for you are important to God, your family and friends. And, don't give up--but keep going with what you want to do with your life.

Most importantly, turn to God in prayer and ask Him for help and guidance. After you have done that, recite the Lord's Prayer and when that is all done, live your life in a good way and march on with faith...

In Faith,

Jun 09, 2008
God's Purpose for your Life
by: Karen

Hi Jessica,

There are many issues in your question. Let me just start by saying that you can't "make" somebody love you or want to be with you. Unfortunately, there are no magic answers.

However, that being said, Jessica, there are so many great things waiting for you if you open your heart and let the Lord in. He has an absolutely amazing plan for you and your life.

Jessica, can you imagine a God who loves you so much that He wants you to be happy MORE than you do? Can you imagine a God who sent His son to die in your place for all your sins?

I'm glad you've decided to pray. Ask God to come into your heart and let Him find a home there. Find a strong Christian church where you can surround yourself with great examples of how to live a Christian life.

Jessica, it sounds as though your focus centers around one guy who may or may not care about you. The world is a great big place with many, many opportunities. Change your focus. Find ways to be a blessing to other people. Take your mind off of you and do all you can to make things better for the people around you. When you plant those kinds of seeds, God will bring an awesome harvest into your own life.

Jessica, God has already chosen the right man for you to spend your life with. This man will love you for who you are. He will want to grow with you and he will build you up, not tear you down.

Trust God, Jessica. He has every answer. I pray that your heart will be renewed and transformed. I pray that God will show everyone just how amazing and special you are to Him.

Blessings,

Karen


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