infidelity

by Missy
(PA)

I have been married for two months shy of two years. My husband no longer finds me attractive and says he no longer respects me. This morning I heard his phone beep, indicating a message, and he left extremely early for work. I think he may be cheating on me. He doesn't want me to wear my glasses (he thinks I look bad in them, can't stand how I look in them). When we first started dating he said they made me look like a sexy secretary. He doesn't like my hair down, for same reason. But, when I asked him how I should get my hair done when we were dating, he said he liked (then he described my hair the way it was when we first met. Now, he can't stand it like that!!! I have lost 40lbs. and kept it off since we started dating. I have also allowed him to rule me. When we first met I was very independant and was a manager for a national retail chain.