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jealousy

by Kelsey
(Martinsburg WV)

okay , so i am 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months.I am so jealous! Like if there is a attractive girl on tv he always looks away because he knows it will make me mad if he looks at her. I think the way i feel is because of my previous relationship i let the guy do whatever he wanted and I let him walk all over me and low and behold he cheated on me. I feel that now i have to be very protective of my boyfriend. We only see each other on the weekends because he works ans for the past couple weekends we have been arguing. I just do not want this jealousy of min ruin my relationship. I love this boy to DEATH. what are some ways i can do to help myself from being jealous?

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Jun 10, 2010
 Trading junk for beauty
by: Karen

Hi Kelsey,

At 16 you are just starting your journey with God. There is so much He wants to show you and teach you. And, having been 16 at one time (back when cave men roamed the earth), I can tell you that everything seems like a bigger issue than it really is. I know that because as I got older I looked back and realized that things really weren't as big a deal as I made them out to be.

That being said, Kelsey, being jealous means you are either insecure or are comparing yourself to other girls and deciding that you don't measure up.

Jealousy is a devious thing. Before you know it, you make it impossible for people to care about you because all they get in return is suspicion, doubt, and harsh words. It's not pretty.

Kelsey, it all starts with your thoughts. You CAN decide what thoughts you keep. You CAN decide what is true and what Satan deliberately puts in your head to make you nuts.

Kelsey, God has an amazing plan for you and your life. He wants you to be happy MORE than you do. Can you imagine a God that cares that much?

Take the time to ask Him what He thinks about your relationship. Ask Him for help to deal with those unhealthy feelings. Put Him first in your life. When you do, He trades you all that negative junk for peace. You get to feel great because you know who you are in Christ.

It's worth a try, you think?

Blessings,

Karen

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