Need advice for my son  My son who is 23 years old has been in a 9 month relationship with a 19 year old mother of a 2 year old daughter. Of course both of them have some maturing ...

When it doesn't seem like my marriage is going to be saved...  I have been praying asking God to heal my marriage. Surrendering my husband, my marriage and my will to God. I don't talk to my husband...and I don't know ...

losing faith  I feel so lost, alone and defeated, everyday. I pray and am thankful for all that i have, but over the last year i have lost a lot and all atempts to better ...

In need of help with my financial obligation to my marriage  Good Evening Karen, Well ive been married for almost two years and IM trying whatever it take to make my marriage work. Before me and my husband got married ...

Unique purpose involving spouse?  Dear Karen,

Firstly I'd like to thank you for your wonderful website. I have found it very helpful.

I've just read Erin's question about submission ...

Women's Submission  Hi Karen,
I am a young woman growing in the Christian faith, but I was not raised in the faith so I am struggling with women's role in God's Kingdom. Specifically,...

WAHM  Karen,
I relate to so much of what you say in your bio. I am 31 with an 18 month old and a husband and I work in the corporate world and am on the fast ...

Need Advise and Prayers  I was hired as a temp in the accounting department to cover this ladies position while she went on maternity leave. Her sister works here and we worked ...

Why?  Hello, My name is Becky, I'm 32 years old. I have always wondered why things happen to me. I do consider myself religous I just don't go to church every ...

prayer for family and husband  we have been married for 10 years. A few years back when things were at its worst i caught my husband emotionally cheating on me via live web cams. we ...

In need of STRONG prayers  My husband has two babies outside our marriage. We've been married for 14 yrs. I have not been a good wife. I verbal and emotionally abused my husband ...

confuse an need direction  i am lost, people are not real, i'ved been hurt in a relationship,i'm in school.i know an the Lord,but i became distracted,maybe i am angry at something ...

How do you know for certain God has called you to ministry?  I strongly feel led to Children's Ministry. I have worked in this area of ministry in many ways from just helping in the nursery to coordinating lessons ...

Am I Being Too Hard on my self  ok so when I found God things became more clear and I even saw his hand move into my life and i was so happy because i heard about this people who went ...

Losing my relationships due to depression and stress  Hi, I have lost most of my friends and my family is not happy with me. I suffer from depression and anxiety issues. Everything is falling apart. my son ...

Hearing Gods voice  hi Karen
im a 22 year old girl and recently came out of a 4 year relationship.

i have this feeling that God still has a plan for me and my ex boyfriend ...

I am responsible for my own pains  hi,

I don't know why am i writing all this, but i have been in pain since last few months,I have hurt everybody, whosoever loved me.My parents, my best ...

Stay Home wife  have beem married for two years now, and i been feeling very troubled recently, I have been reading many christain books about the role of a woman, her ...

Making God first in my life  What would you suggest be good steps to start making god come first and stay first in my life?

Showing respect for USA  What do you think of and individul who lives in the USA , has a green card form England, but always putting down the USA. Comparing what England has to ...

I NEED YOUR PRAYER  My name is Lori. I have been reading about self estem on your site after stumbling onto it by accident. However, now I believe that it wasn't an accident ...

seek and you shall find and ask and it will be given to you  i have read this over and over again . i have thought about this over and over again. I must disagree with this . I have asked and looked for work , nursing ...

REJECTION  How does one cope/deal with rejection? My husband of 18 years have left our home for an alcoholic, self harming woman, he is the 8th man she has devoured ...

My husband is not saved  I have been married for 5 years. Before that, me and my husband lived together for 5 years. My pastor told me that God said either marry him or move ...

I think God is calling me  I'm 22yrs old woman all my life I?ve always felt something in my heart, i always knew God was not to far away from me. But i seem to go back and fort with ...

my husbend and i cant seem to see eye to eye on our responsiblities  My husbend and I are very much inlove. Lately he has became very grouchie. He blows his top fast over little things. This is not the man I merried.he said ...

Obey your husbans no matter what hea sks?  I am a christian and my husband is not but he uses scripture to tell me that i'm to submit and obey no matter what he asks.He asks me to do sick imorall ...

Stay home wife  I have beem married for two years now, and i been feeling very troubled recently, I have been reading many christain books about the role of a woman,...

being a loving and most of all patient mother to my sons  i am a wife of 10yrs and a mother to 5 sons, i am not patient with them because most of the time they drive me crazy, what i hate the most is how i act ...

I Hate Myself!  I just hate myself so much! I want to get away from myself so badly (but obviously can't). I know God loves me and that from scripture we learn that ...

How do i find out exactly what God wants me to do?  I'm an average teenage girl. My life has been pretty interesting even to myself. I'm far from being the perfect person on earth, in fact, i'm a great sinner....

What is God's purpose for your life?  This is a question I battle with daily. I was born into a Christian home (my parents divorced when I was 6)and I received the Holy Spirit when I was 26 ...

husband and wife worshipping at different church  my husband and i worship at different church. some said i should worship withmy husband.what is your opion on this?

The will of God for my life  My dear brothers and sisters in Christ, please pray with me.

I've been a born-again Christian for five years now, i believe that i have served the Lord ...

Hearing God   Could you please help me with the following question. My wife insists that God speaks to her through thunder and lightning. Whenever it appears she starts ...

Abusive, Depressed Husband  I've been a committed Christian for 30 years, and married for the same length of time. My husband gradually became more verbally, financially and emotionally ...

My spouse is overbearing and jealous without reason.   I am married to a person that has had along background in drugs and alcohol. He is a Christian, 16 years my elder, I'm 45 and also a Christian, He is ...

Why did things turn out this way?  Sometime last year between October and early November, I decided to end an online friendship I had with someone (a male) because they propositioned me ...

Relationship with ex boss and friend ended badly am hurting   Four months ago, I had a relationship end that was very important to me. I worked for a graphic designer "e". THings started off great and ended badly....

Workbooks and study guides  Please help me to find some workbooks and study guides so that I may strengthen my faith. I live in a small town (pop. 200) and chose not to attend church....

Why did God let woman have periods?  I am a young woman and have struggled to accept just how God made the woman's body. Every time I have my period i feel utterly hummiliated and condemmed....

Frozen in Time  It has been so long...frozen in what seems like the same place in my marriage. We married 18 years ago when I was pregnant and had not spent enough time ...

Boyfriend cheating  My boyfriend cheated on me after 5 years, but I really think he might be the one for me, should I run away now before even considering marriage, or should ...

38 years of lying  How do I even begin? Adultry from my husband in the first 5 years. (maybe more than once) on & off again problems w/alcoholism and now I've found out ...

Girlfriend broke up with me  I'm heartbroken and don't know where to turn. My girlfriend of 2 years told me that she was backing off all communication with me, "you obviously are waiting ...

Guilt  Hi...i have been doing my best to straighten out my finances and get out of debt for a long time...I work myself out everyday with the goal to pay all ...

im afraid whats to come  I am in a difficult situation which i cant seem to get myself out of ! For months i have been running round in circles thinking im near the end but in ...

gettin married  I have issues:I wanted to marry the mother of my kids who was recently saved. But Im not saved though. We have been together for 10 yrs. and I love her ...

Promoting My Ebook  Can male authors promote their books on your site, too?

Divorce and remarriage  What if the ex-spouse remarries, would it than be okay to remarry?

Unsaved husband   I have been saved for over 15 years and it seems as if my husband has gone further in the opposite direction. When I first got saved he did mind me going ...

marriage problem  My husband left me well I was at work. I was not the best wife but I want to fix how do I start he won't even talk to me?

Encouraging Book  I have a friend that has an ex wife that states she is going to commit suicide. She is a night club dancer and is realizing that she is empty. i am looking ...

Knowing God's Voice  I still do not know the voice of God. I have been saved for about 8 years now and though I have felt the Holy Spirit, His voice - not yet. I realize somethings ...

Is living together before marriage a sin?  It has become such a norm that couples live together mainly for convenience prior to getting married. I am no different. I have lived with my boyfriend ...

I hate my husband.  In the last two years my husband has not had a real job. I work 3 jobs to support the family. He spends lots of money on things he wants. I worked an ...

Learning how to hear God's voice?  Hey. God has shown me through certain experiences that he wants me to hear his voice and have an intimate relationship with him. I really want to hear ...

Dealing with Your Spouse's Promiscuous Past  I know this is very shallow and I have been praying and reading my Bible and any other Christian material on this topic but I am still struggling.
I ...

marriage separated  Hi
Can you please pray for me and my husband. I am scared and don't know what to do. My husband left 5 months ago and will barely speak with me and talks ...

Your Advice   I am a retired policeman, I have a true Christian story that was in Hollywood at one time. The person working to develop it into a feature film unfortunately ...

CONFUSED AND BROKEN HEARTED  Hi my name is tonya. My husband left me a month after we were married. He said he wasnt ready to be married. He still has not taken all of his belongings....

Struggling to overcome the Past  Hi Karen,

Its been a while , I prayed and sought God's forgiveness for my sins in the past saying in the prayers" the remembrance of them is grievous ...

chronic low self esteem, dependency on others.  Hi Karen.
My problem is many problems & interconnected. I have kind of hit the bottom and hence am able to evalulate my weaknesses.but they feel a 100 ...

Decision Making  Hi Karen:

I have been struggling for the past few months trying to make a decision that is truly life changing for me.

I live in Florida and have ...

My Purpose  My name is Claudia. I have had a life full of many life altering experiences. I will do my best to give the short version.

I came from a very well ...

afraid of the answer, but need to know  I'm living with my boyfriend, and though i am not as religious or devout as my best friend, i still believe in god and the right path... anyway, my boyfriend ...

Christian Separation  Hi Karen,

Thank you for your site and all of your helpful articles,etc. I want to ask you about Christian separation. My husband and I are both believers,...

jealousy  okay , so i am 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for a little over 6 months.I am so jealous! Like if there is a attractive girl on tv he always looks ...

Mother in law and husband trouble  I have been with my husband since I was 17 years old.

We are now 34 "& 35. We have 3 children together and

for the most part we get along fine....

Spiritual Isolation  Over the past 20 years I've enjoyed a close relationship with God. I've felt Him and seen Him work and move in my life. There is no comparison to that ...

Divorce  Both my husband and myself are born again christians, have been for over 30 years. He is divorcing me and is with another woman..his old high school sweetheart....

My husband left me, now what?  Hello, my husband and I have been married for almost 13yrs. We married at a young age. Me 16 him 18. We waited 7yrs to have our only child. I was born ...

loveless marriage  I was just wondering if you could offer any spiritual guidance regarding my loveless marriage. I no longer love my husband, but am devoted to my children....

Should we marry non Christians?  Dear sir/mdm,

I have read through your website and I salute your advices to others who are facing problems. I hope you could help me out too.

I am ...

Why does God mostly give me a negative answer?  I have been praying to God to give me a good job,i always apply for jobs but do not get one.It has been for about four years but still no better job for ...

Pregnant and separated from my husband due to alcohol  Hi, My name is Tracy, Iam 41 and pregnant with my fourth child (second with current husband). Heres my story and would love prayer on it.
I met my husband ...

My Broken Marriage  Hi Karen.My name is Cheryl Baker and my husbands name is Waymond. We have been together since Oct of 99,married july7,07.I have always been a controlling ...

Waiting on God - To act or not to act  I recently purchased a condominium and have lived in it for over a year. It was peaceful and quiet until my neighbor above me moved in. In the beginning ...

I fear I have no purpose in life.   Lately, I have been so bored with life. I know that's wrong to say, but its how I feel. I just think to myself like wow, I'm 26 yrs old, like is this ...

sEXLESS mARRIAGE  I need advice on the topic above. i am in a sexless marriage, i would love it if my husband would make to to me, i fantersie him making love to me, i ...

Question  I assume that since your daughter is interested in being a nun, you must be Catholic, correct? If so, are you or have you ever been involved in the charismatic ...

Knowing Gods leading  Karen
Just wanted to here your take on knowing Gods leading...I'am at a place right now where I really need to know God's voice. I have many major ...

Out of Control Giving?  My husband & I are completely on the same page about tithing & do so regularly - no matter what. No problem there. However, while we also both agree ...

not going through with the divorce  my husbands beem caught up with an affair.we have tried several times to save our marriage.but he kept seeing the other women.he is weak and submits to ...

I have an urgent marriage question.  How do I take, & deal with an alcoholic husband that might have a sex addiction? It is hard to be a christian wife with alcohol in the house. And, with ...

marriage question  how do i get my trust for my husband since he has cheated.when he leaves he dont want to tell me were hes going and if he does i dont believe what hes ...

At what point do I "tell all?"  I am a college student who grew up with a Christian background, but didn't really get it until last year when I truly became a Christian. At that point,...

Seeking a mate  Is it appropriate for a baby christian or any christian women to ask God for a husband? I recently met a man that I had asked God to send even before I ...

Praying For Me a Husband  How do you pray for you a husband? I'm in a relationship with someone I really love from the heart. I have had so many bad and trying relationships that ...

feelings for a pastor   Hi I have been struggling with feelings for my pastor for 4 years I just some advice on what to do and how to make these feelings go away when they keep ...

God's plan for our lives  How does a person know what God's will is for their life?

What it is that I need to do   Hi Karen

Firstly just would like to say I loved reading through the site, thank you for your obedience to the Lord its so refreshing to hear how God ...

loneliness  Lately I have started to feel lonely and depressed. I guess I don't have many friends. I have always made my children my life and used food to comfort ...

How do I accept my Stepson's decision?  Hi,

My name is Karen. I have a stepson who has not be a model human being. He has been arrogant, self centered, manipulative and abusive. He has committed ...

Christian fiction  Hi my name is Eileen Sanchez and I am a writer. I am seeking a literary agent or publisher that will consider my manuscript for publishing. Some of them ...

How do I help?  Besides praying everyday, how can I help my son who is suicidal at times, has mental and emotional problems and refuses to seek treatment due to a very ...

marriage  Hello:I live with my husband for 10 years but we never get married and he left me 6 months ago he is living with the other woman right now,and i been standing ...

Divorce 
I've been drinking too much for the past three years. It's put a huge strain on my marriage and now my husband has filed for divorce. I don't want ...

Direction & Prayer  Good morning;

God bless you and your minsitry. I have been praying about direction and gudiance for my life from the Lord since I was saved 4 years ...

Protection for Sabrina's family from demons and burdens  Unite your prayers with mine and pray in the name of Jesus for Sabrina's family to be freed from their captivity in a miseriable life of burdens and demons ...

Prayer & print   I have received a email regarding small prayers for stress, Jealousy,Anxiety etc. I have misplaced or deleted it. can you tell me where I can find all ...

Spiritual Guidance??  I have worked at my present job for 17+ years with Excellent perfomance ratings. My new boss is making me hate going to work. I can't affort to quit, and ...

unconditional love  How will a person ever know he/she is loved unconditionally if he/she has always been abandoned throughout his/her life?

Afraid   Hi Karen, I have been a subscriber to your website for some time now and enjoy reading every post. Karen, I am scared. For the past week I've come across ...

Am i going down the right path with my music?   I am a musician with one of my best friends in a duo. the Lord has given me wonderful talents that i thank Him for everyday. Recently we have decided on ...

friend with terminal disease  One of my very close friends has terminal heart, lung, and blood diseases. His doctors say that if he makes it halfway through his 16th year, they'll ...

Help with Godly advice  Been married 18 years. Husband is a Pastor. Before becoming a pastor he slept around many times. Since I am a Christian I forgave him. (I did have ...

God's Timing  Can you recommend a good book on "God's Timing"
I was just told recently that I may have missed opportunities because I wasn't aware of God's Timing?!
Can ...

My husband left me and I am asking God to restore our marriage.  We've only been married for 2 years and my husband left me and he has shut me out completely. I told him out of anger that I wish I never married him ...

Is it ok for a husband/wife to have a deep relationship with someone of the opposite sex?  My husband and I have been married just since 6/12/09. Just before our wedding, a woman he knew from his past contacted him. She was having some problems,...

WHERE DO I GO FROM HERE?  Hi. i recently became a christian. I just finished university. i am a single mother. Recently everything has been going wrong. I had to leave my job 2 ...

Dear Karen  I have this situation with a friend of mine. We used to be THIS close and suddenly she stopped talking to me for no reason. I asked her what was wrong ...

What is the Christian perspective of Alcoholics Annonymous?  Is it appropriate for a Christian to participate or serve in an alcoholics annonymous or narcotics annonymous program? They teach to believe in a higher ...

work at home  I am intriqued. I have been a working /homeschooling /single mom for 15 years now it has always been my hearts desire to be at home .... now my family ...

False Teachers  HOW CAN YOU TELL IF SOMEONE IS LEADING YOU ASTRAY. THERE ARE MANY PEOPLE MORE INTELLEGENT AND CHARISMATIC THAT REAllY CAN DECIEVE YOU. HOW CAN YOU TELL ...

legally seperated chrstians  My husband and I have been married for 28 years He has always walked out. We have three grown kids. We were married very young. He had gotten on drugs ...

friendship  is it ok to be friends with a man. can u spend time in each others homes or should u keep it public.

How do I know my purpose?  I was ordained as an Evangelist. I know I have a prophetic gift. I hear God tell me sooo much. I need to know my purpose.

How should I live? 
I feel very hopeless.
I hardly hear the voice of God.
I don't feel comforted by God.
I don't in love by God.
Despite professing to be a Christian ...

why can i not feel jesus walk with   i do not have religon but i belive in god and jesus i go to any house of god not all the time and i talk and pray to god sometimes i have ask jesus to ...

why would God tell me this at that time?  A few yrs ago, I ran into an old friend from high school. I had a dream a few days later in which I felt God was telling me he would be my future partner....

Charles  This is charles (chucky), I just read your thoughts on "saving your christian marriage". I want to know from you if you feel that this book would REALLY ...

My Relationship with my boyfriend  My Boyfriend Alessandro and I have been seeing each other for 10 months now. He works 15 hour days as a carpenter and is very busy. There are times when ...

Is God calling me and Is it me?  I'm 21 years old and I have two small children. I feel like God is telling me to prepare myself for ministry. I'm the type of person that God deals with ...

praying for my husband  Hello I am a mother of 4 and a wife that was raised in church knowing and believing in jesus christ.
My husband is an unbeliever he has been saved and ...

Guidance for Recent Stay at home Mom  Hello, I have recently been battling with why when I praise the Lord for certain blessings, no sooner than I praise my heart out, the blessings turn bad....

God's will   How will I know God's will for my life? Why is it so difficult to hear from God. I felt that He's not working in my life. I haven't been working for almost ...

DIVORCE  I would like to know your thoughts compared to God's word about divorce. I have a friend who has been married for 8 years. The first few years was ...

marriage problems  My complaining has seemed to push my husband over the edge and he has told me he doesn't want to be with me anymore. He says he only says that because ...

how long do I have to wait to meet the right guy?  I belive in god from my heart. I trust him.
he gives me everything I want right a way, but I don't know why he doesn't give me the right guy.
I feel ...

I would love to write.  I would love to write and i have that desire. Just can't seem to get started. I get stuck. I would like to write devotionals or essays.
Any advice.

forgiveness  I cheated on my boyfriend and I ask God for forgiveness but should I tell him what I have done even though I have repented? We are also both trying to ...

tithing  my mother and father tithed. i am 57 years old now, and have tithed my money faithfully for a short time. my husband, however, thinks tithing is in the ...

praying aloud  on your site and in my church also they advocate the power of the spoken word. however, part of my illness is the inability to speak clearly does this ...

money  Hi. My name is Bry and I keep praying for Gods help and I know He hears me but i just need a little help from Him and I just can't seem to get the help....

I Would like to have children.  I'm 31yrs old and I was born with Arthrogryposis, I'm the only one I know of that can walk but was told I wouldn't be able to have children since I was ...

divorce and reconcilation  In March, I left my verbally and emotionally abusive husband. In July, the divorce he filed became final. But, now it's December, and we're talking better ...

forgiving  One years ago my husband gave me emotional trouble. He had made a girlfriend and stay with her sometime(around one month).Aferthat she went to her work ...

Broken Marriage  I believe God is a Restorer of All things. I believe that neither any thing nor any situation is too impossible for God to turn around. On the other hand ...

Can we lump some of those topics together?  LOL! I know that's near impossible, but I guess it was worth a mention.
The dilemma I face is a rather difficult and personal battle. I've been married ...

Knowing my true calling in the Lord  Karen,

My question is how can I know for sure that it is God calling me to Minister (to preach) to his people
or if it is me confusing preaching and ...

Second Marriage  I came to know the Lord in 2001. I was married. I drifted away after my first husband left me. I did many things that I now regret and have asked forgiveness....

Atheist son  My son has announced that he believes himself to be an atheist. He was raised in the church, but has not attended since he was a teenager. He has gone ...

God's timing?  My 4 year old just passed away unexpectedly from pneumonia. I am battling back and forth with the question of whether God really takes us when its our ...

I cant seem to understand?  Hi Karen

I am going through a rough time at the moment, my tears seem to be under control but heart still has pain.

I have never had a serious relationship ...

Old/New Covenant  Hi there!!
I've been a bit confused as to, too what point do we follow the old covenant? Keeping Sundays holy,tithing, celebrating feasts - just all ...

Finances/purpose in life  I have been such a fool with the resources that God has given me...he has given me alot! I have wasted so much money and so much time! I fear that everything ...

THE DESIRE TO GET MARRIED  I DESIRE TO GET MARRIED BUT WHEN I PRAY AND ASK GOD FOR A GODLY MAN AND HUSBAND FOR ME AND MY DAUGHTERS LIFE, I FEEL LIKE MAYBE THIS ISN'T GODS PURPOSE ...

Depression  My boyfriend is battling with depression, Anxiety, and fear, due to his financial problems, and being unemployed, and other things. He is a christian, he ...

confused and heartbroken  I have been in a relationship with a man for four and a half years. We have a son together. Although we were never married we were very committed to each ...

Will I get married again?  I'm 50, I'm adopting my little grandson. I have a good paying job and a good retirement to look forward to at 60. I have a house, grown kids, loving ...

How do you know when God is calling you into ministry?  Blessing to you my sister-in-Christ. It is over one year now that I am feeling a pulling and urging in my spirit to attend Bible College, but, I keeping ...

how can i get my boyfriend back  I was once going with this guy who was all my type. everything was going good but until i went to the movies with these 2guys whom i was related to. so ...

Need Scriptures  I have helped out a family member with money and things they need they won't do nothing for there self and when I talk about God they don't want to hear,...

lust and forgiveness  Hi,
I have been dating someone for about 2 years, and we are both Christians, but were struggling with keeping purity in our relationship. Our boundary ...

HOW DO I STAY SAVED?  I HAD THE HOLY SPIRIT TAKEN INTO ME TODAY, BUT I WANT TO KNOW HOW DO I REMAIN SAVED?

Discipline of my (mildly) Autistic Son  my son gets intense in-home behavior therapy and their faulty philosophy is there should be no consequences for bad choices and he should be redirected ...

My Miracle Prayer  Hello my name is Zuri and I had a miracle prayer answered but now it's the whole opposite. I don't really understand why this would be given to me if only ...

Problems with my Husband  I met a man and we married within the year of meeting. The first friend I met of his was a nice lady... He then needed to get someone into his home to ...

Family Member in Distress  My sister is going through hard times with a husband that's very disrespectful, there's no money in the bank, bills haven't been paid and child can't go ...

JEALOUS  I am a married lady with one child. Lately my husband has not been so fulfilling in our relationship. I tried talking to him but he gets on the defensive ...

My Negative Husband  I read part of an article you wrote that emphasizes the importance of not "letting other people's negative attitudes influence yours".

My husband is ...

Hearing from God  How do I know God voice from all others voices?

Prayer Group  I would like to start a prayer group for myself and the Christian women that go to my Church. What will I need to start, and where could I find good self ...

Patience Article  I really needed this site tonight. The Lord gave me a "Word" for the Sunday's message, and it's on patience. Then circumstances occurred where I was running ...

Living with Depression  I've lived with depression a large part of my life. I come from an abusive family background, and instead of dealing with it I just shoved it all inside....

Work at Home Opportunity  Hi,
I am an Empty Nester I would love to find work at home. Is there any reputable companies out there?

Unknown Christian Book Title  Hi there! A few years ago I Read a great book about improving yourself like the floors of a house. Starting out in the basement and working your way ...

Getting over Jealousy  I read your articles on jealousy and even though they sound good, I'm living with it and it's still really hard for me.

My husband looks at pornography ...

Tithe  We can hardly tithe the 10%, but we do it anyway. I keep expecting these blessings to come from God for obeying Him and it's as if He is totally silent....

Unsaved Husband  I'm struggling with my husband. He grew up in a Christian home, but he just never really found it for himself.

I like to go to church and I want our ...

Stepping Over The Line  I have another question that I would like to go out to your readers and members.

When do we step over the line when we are trying to point others in ...

Supposed Christians  I don't understand how some people who call themselves Christians can be so nice to your face and turn right around and say nasty things behind your back....