May God touch your husband's heart - I am in the same situation by: Anonymous
Hi Jessi,
I am sorry to hear about your husband's change of behavior. It looks like he is going through a mid-life crisis and he is under the influence of his "friends". This is a very frustrating and unfair situation because suddenly
I have sympathy for your pain, I have been in the same situation. My ex-husband is trying to get a mail-order bride, but I wish that I had seen it coming, I did not know or I was in denial so I kept arguing about some common issues. Instead, I should have tried everything I could to get us to counselling and I would have tried to win him over by learning to be less overburdened by work. Being mean is a normal and human reaction because your feelings are hurt, I know I have been there but I would try to see if he is willing to go to counselling, learn about your rights in the meantime and try to rekindle your relationship by inviting him to go out for dinner or making some time for special moments like that, while asking God for His help.
But again, I may not give the best advice but I know that this is what I would have done differently.
May God touch your husband's heart and help him realize that the real woman in his life is you, who raised his children and stood by him at all times. Let's pray for each other.
