I am in a similiar situation. Stay strong and continue to trust the Lord. Remember that all things work together for good to them that love the LORD who are the called according to his purpose.
Marriage Restoration (Angela) by: Anonymous
Angela, I can testify of having feelings for a nother man while being married. I know this was not normal, for I never liked this man, he is everything I hated in a man. I realized after I fell in the trap that I was under spiritual attack. I found out this man is attending his spiritual healers regaularly, so I knew the enemy wanted to destroy my marrage and me.
I would suggest you give your husband time. He needs to choose, and needs to stick to his discision. Make it very clear to him that if he chooses the other woman, it's over. But also in the meantime, tell him how much you love him and that no one will love him the way you do. Also tell him that you will forgive him, but he needs to let go of the other woman. For you must know you are fighting in the spiritual realm for him, use your authority.
Every day pray for him, fast for 7 days with only water, tell all your friends and your church to pray for him. He is in bondage at the moment, the only way out is through prayer. Forgive him for he do not know what he is doing. The enemy wants to destroy him, dont allow it, be his best friend and you will find your reward.
Good luck, stay stong and Trust in God, He changes situations.