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My husband is having an affair

by Jennifer
(South Africa)

I have been married for 30 years, my husband started having an affair with my friend Jayne for the last six years. but he is more at home than with her, but she keeps contacting him and I am sure she has some hold on him, as soon as she contacts him he has to some go see her. I have kicked him out twice packed his bags and droped them off at her house but the very next morning he is at home again.telling me he has made the biggest mistake and that he loves me and that she wont leave us alone. Now today he has gone to her, and I just pray that Derek comes home tonight. i love Derek so much, and I have tried so hard to let him go, but I can't.

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My husband is having an affair

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Jan 02, 2010
Response to "My husband is having an affair"
by: Lee Baucom

Jennifer, six years? Your husband is continuing because he has "the best of both worlds" in his mind. He has his home, and he has his fun. Fun runs out? All he has to do is beg and plead to come home.

After 6 years, I can promise you that HE will not change the pattern. Will you? He will not believe you, but you need to tell him the next time he goes to her is the last time he comes home. Then, you have to follow through. When he begs to come back, you have to show him you mean business. Tell him he will need to live elsewhere (not with her), and prove he will stay away from her, while winning you back.

If he refuses, you have to decide whether you will set your boundaries or continue to allow yourself to be used. Your boundaries are too flexible right now.

I pray your husband will come home, but I must tell you, after 6 years, there is a strong pattern.

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