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Submitted by: Lee Baucom

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Jennifer, six years? Your husband is continuing because he has "the best of both worlds" in his mind. He has his home, and he has his fun. Fun runs out? All he has to do is beg and plead to come home. After 6 years, I can promise you that HE will not change the pattern. Will you? He will not believe you, but you need to tell him the next time he goes to her is the last time he comes home. Then, you have to follow through. When he begs to come back, you have to show him you mean business. Tell him he will need to live elsewhere (not with her), and prove he will stay away from her, while winning you back. If he refuses, you have to decide whether you will set your boundaries or continue to allow yourself to be used. Your boundaries are too flexible right now. I pray your husband will come home, but I must tell you, after 6 years, there is a strong pattern.

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