i am asking all who read this pray with us for restoration by: Anonymous
god you created us and i am sure we all hold hands in prayer for restoration even to go to our husbands heart and remove the rock inside him and make him think of the unhappiness he is causing in the childrens life for gaining happiness only for himself you are selfish to us woman god will show you and make you pay for all the hurt you are causing in the whole family your day will come when our tears dries in the meantime enjoy your joy ride
i am asking all who read this pray with us for restoration by: Anonymous
god you created us and i am sure we all hold hands in prayer for restoration even to go to our husbands heart and remove the rock inside him and make him think of the unhappiness he is causing in the childrens life for gaining happiness only for himself you are selfish to us woman god will show you and make you pay for all the hurt you are causing in the whole family your day will come when our tears dries in the meantime enjoy your joy ride
some husbands when they finiancal power they think money can controll everything by: Anonymous
my husband started his business 17years ago today he is a very succesful businessman with finiancel power he treated me like puppy dog has been having affairs even with my own family member and recently with a so called business partner whom i did not know until i found a sms i sent to him to wish him goodnight he was away on business he took the same sms sent it to her i must comb my hair the way he wants it i must do something he wants even if i dont like it he would not do a thing for me i came out of hospital i confronted him on his affair with this woman he packed and left me same time ub=up until today no contact i gave him 37 years of my life today i dont work i mean nothing to him he only wants woman with status i will leave him in the hands of our creator the wheel will turn one day i believe strongly in our creator
husband also walked out after 32 years by: Anonymous
MY ADVICE IS TO PRAY .GOD WILL BE THE JUDGE.MY HUSBAND ENTERTAINED A WOMAN IN THE HOLIDAYS TELLING ME HE IS WORKING.I AM SUPPOSE TO BE THE PERFECT WIFE.TAKING THIS WOMAN AND INTRODUCING HER ON THE GOLF COURSE AS HIS BUSINESS PARTNER AND ME NOT KNOWING ANYTHING OF HIS CONTACT WITH HER SHE CONTACTED ME AND TOLD ME THE WHOLE STORY AS TO ALL THE GOOD DONE FOR HER WITH OUT MY KNOWLEDGE AND HOW SHE GETS SPOILT AND LOVED BY THIS MAN.HE TELLS ME HE HAD A HARD DAY AT WORK BUT MEANTIME HE WAS WITH HER AFTER I CONFRONTED HIM HE TOLD ME HOW DID I LIVE WITH A WITCH LIKE YOU ALL THESE YEARS
husband also walked out after 32 years by: Anonymous
MY ADVICE IS TO PRAY .GOD WILL BE THE JUDGE.MY HUSBAND ENTERTAINED A WOMAN IN THE HOLIDAYS TELLING ME HE IS WORKING.I AM SUPPOSE TO BE THE PERFECT WIFE.TAKING THIS WOMAN AND INTRODUCING HER ON THE GOLF COURSE AS HIS BUSINESS PARTNER AND ME NOT KNOWING ANYTHING OF HIS CONTACT WITH HER SHE CONTACTED ME AND TOLD ME THE WHOLE STORY AS TO ALL THE GOOD DONE FOR HER WITH OUT MY KNOWLEDGE AND HOW SHE GETS SPOILT AND LOVED BY THIS MAN.HE TELLS ME HE HAD A HARD DAY AT WORK BUT MEANTIME HE WAS WITH HER AFTER I CONFRONTED HIM HE TOLD ME HOW DID I LIVE WITH A WITCH LIKE YOU ALL THESE YEARS
It goes on and on by: Greg
Ladies I fully understand where you are at. My wife walked out of our family 3 yrs ago to pursue an adulterous relationship with another man. She took our two yr old with her and left our ten yr old with me. She split our children up, had a baby by this man, severely devasted our family financially for her selfish desires.
I fervently prayed for my wife, and I fervently prayed for God to work in my heart as to whatever faults I personally had or had done to her to cause her to do something like this. I wrestled with this for many many months until I fully turned it over it over to the Lord and His control.
I don't know why this had to happen to us and I don't know the outcome but I do know that I can totally trust Him to give me grace in dealing with her and our children. I do know He has taken care of me in ways that are too many to list. I do know He is in control and will see to it that we who honored our spouse, loved our spouse, and ultimately honored Him with our marriage gives grace and strength to his children.
Don't let pride or bitterness overtake you at this critical time of your life because I for one have allowed the Lord to work in my life and I can say without a doubt that I am a saved child of God who is protected by my Father who constantly blesses me. So sit back and relax and keep a journal of all the trials and solutions to those trials that are upcoming in your life. His grace is sufficient and it will carry you through this dark and lonely and discouraging time in your life.
Greg
so hurt and upset by: Anonymous
My husband fights with me everyday. He has made me give up friends and now i have only 2 left and hes working on that. He is very controlling we have a terrible relationship and three beatiful girls. I have lived where he wanted with his family whose raccist and outright mean to us for the last ten and a half years of marriage and he promised we could all move to my state one day well that time came he knew and was fine buthe is still in his home state and doesnt act at all like he misses us and despises me rekindling my family relationships and allowing our girls to get to knw this side of the family. He finds fault in everything i do or go even with his permission. now he wont talk to me and asked me to leave him alone and sent me a text stating he was going out last night, and still hasnt called us. my daughter has tried to call him twice leaving him a message and he is avoidin all of us. im very sad but i think he really is over me already. i should have left years ago very abuseful but i still loved him for some reason to the end i guess. i tried to talk himinto marriage counseling but he refused to go. i feel all alone,hurt and confused about wht his intentions are. i wait for his call and i pray every day for god to fix this for us. i also didnt put god first i put my husband and this is wht happens i guess.
how alike we are by: Anonymous
my husband of 10 years left my daughter and I about 2 years ago let us with no heat, no phone,no electric, and a month behind in rent how was I gonna manage... he had no care in the world. I praye to god evry night and every morning to bring my husband back to me. He dated another women for 3 months and realized what he left and came to me with a sorry and a tear after getting my life caught up I excepted him back because it was my marriage. one year later we bought a house on a land contract with 5,000 down we lived there for a year at 700 a month and paid one years taxes of 4,000. He said to me one day he didnt want this anymore and left what we had invested. moved in with anoher women... AGAIN I prayed. I had 2 weeks to move out of our home and find a place for my daughter and I.. we are stilll not togethe about 6 months ago but I will tell you if he wants to come back Diane my Answer will be know he has created a pattern when times get tough he leaves and I am left alone to deal with it when I resolve the problems he wants back in... to all women dont beg and wish...be strong you can manage if I can so can you...I have now met a great man who cares for me 100% and this time its real.. pray for that..it well worth praying for.
Re:Diane by: Anonymous
I am a little bit confused as to why a woman would belittle herself and beg for a man to come back to her,knowing he has no interest??
I think you need to read between the lines, Diane.
Do you really want to waste your time begging for him to come home? Get yourself up and move on, I am sure there is a man out there who you can make happy and vice versa,....GOOD LUCK!
Just pray and follow your heart by: Anonymous
Im 28 yrs old and was married for 3yrs. Me and my husband had 2 children together and in our last year of marriage begin to have an affair. I had just gave birth to my baby girl. He began to treat me as if i was an stranger. It hurt my heart to see what he was doing. In may of 2008 he just left and never came back. It was like a nightmare. One day Married next day abandoned b the same person who said he would never hurt this family. I prayed, Fasted, constant faith, asked god to fix it up. My husband moved n with another women. He never looked back, so I let god have his way, and I am now divorced and my life has been nothing but blessed. It was hard to let go, but he was blocking the blessings. Stay prayerful god can fix anything.
One day at a time by: 12 years too
My husband also left me, but still calls me everyday. He saids it is only to check on me. Whatever. I have prayed every single hour for him to come home. I have learned that the only person we can control is ourselves. The only person we should count on is God to make us happy. That is were I went wrong. I place my husband in God postion. My husband was first instead of God.
But now I have corrected that order. God is all things to me, not my husband. God is the only one who can make you happy. HE will never leave you. Place your marriage in God's hand. Allow him to deal with your marriage. In the meanwhile take care for yourself.
faith will overcom by: Anonymous
This is Diane. I have faith that our sacred vow of marriage will overcome this test of faith.
Praying by: Anonymous
I pray that you believe that your self worth is not dependent on how your husband chooses to treat you. You are a worthy person for wanting to solve the problems you are experiencing. I pray for understanding, peace, and reconciliation between the two of you.
please pray by: Diane Miceli
I love him although he lied to me..but he wants nothing to do with me. My self worth is zero, I am praying for his return
