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My Relationship with my boyfriend

by Nancy
(Massachusetts)

My Boyfriend Alessandro and I have been seeing each other for 10 months now. He works 15 hour days as a carpenter and is very busy. There are times when 3-4 weeks go by without us seeing each other. To compensate for that,I go out of control and find myself calling him 20 plus times a day. This drives him crazy and he has told me time and time again Nancy Please wait till i call you back, dont keep calling me you know I am busy at work. So I have done this on like 6 different occasions. Everytime it happens he tells me he will leave me if I dont stop doing it. So I did it this passed weekend but told him Monday I promise it wont happen again. So now I am trying to go a few days without calling him to see how long it will take for him to call me.
I am madly in love with Alex and dont want to lose him. But i miss him so much and dont know what I should do.
Please help,
Nancy

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Change your Focus
by: Karen

Hi Nancy,

It is pretty obvious that you are a bit obsessed with this relationship. But, that being said, I also have to say that in all honesty, if you don't see each other for three or four weeks at a time, how much of a relationship can it really be?

If your boyfriend is spending that much time working, then he really doesn't have much time for a relationship.

You need to change your focus. Go out and be a blessing to somebody. Volunteer your time helping people and you won't have so much time to obsess over something that isn't happening for you.

You might also want to spend some time taking a serious look at your self esteem. Your entire life shouldn't be wrapped around somebody else. Take a look at the self esteem help tab on the left hand side of this site. There is some great stuff that might help you identify some things you might want to bring to God to help you change.

Blessings,

Karen

This may not be what you want to hear
by: Anonymous

Nancy,

If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. Men do not like being smothered, they want to feel that they are still free and calling the shots. If you feel that he works too much, that could be a big issue in your relationship. Back down and cool things off so you can see where this relationship is really heading.

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