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not going through with the divorce

by rene

my husbands beem caught up with an affair.we have tried several times to save our marriage.but he kept seeing the other women.he is weak and submits to the easier road.i told him today that we have a court date in 1 week for divorce.i myself dont really want it but i cant keep going through the same thing.i couldt believe how hard it hit him.i wast sure if he even cared.now he has full forth effort into making our marriage work,but he ist pushing me which is a good thing.how do i know if i should stop the divorce or call it off.is he playing me or does he mean it.help me.may god bless all.

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Mar 08, 2010

God Hates divorce!
by: Jax

If your husband is willing to pray with you about the situation, sit down and pray about it together.
Give it all to God, put the situation in his hands.
And, Yes, you two need some Christian counseling and daily prayer. Give it to God, he will answer.

Feb 05, 2010

Not the easy road
by: Karen

Hi Rene,

There's nothing worse than being in the middle of a situation that tears at your very heart. You want to do what's right, yet you know that whatever you choose to do will cause pain.

Rene, the bottom line is that I think you know that the issues in your marriage are more complicated than just the affair. Affairs almost always happen as a result of underlying issues in the marriage.

Whether you decide to go forward with the divorce or not, I really think you need to talk to a Christian counselor who can help you sort out your options. Remember, these professionals have seen this before. They know what to ask you and how to help you gain perspective.

Sometimes when you're in the middle of a difficult situation, you can't see all the outstanding issues that can affect your next move.

Rene, I wish I could tell you one way or the other is the right thing to do, but you really owe yourself the chance to really sort this out.

Blessings,

Karen

Feb 04, 2010

for anonymous
by: Anonymous

for anonymous:

I am separated with my husband and he has a girlfriend. I feel that this girlfriend is just a fling because if my husband is serious with her, he would have divorced me a while ago. I think that guy is just using you. I don't think he loves you at all.

Feb 04, 2010

Divorce?
by: Anonymous

I am kinda in the same boat that your in. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 3 years now.(with ALOT more BAD times than good). He is married (but seperated), so I am the "girlfriend". I have caught him with his ex a couple of times. She says he tells her the same stuff that he tells me, that "he wants to be with me", that "I'm the women he wants to spend the rest of his life with" & all that B/S. So, to make a long story straight, I think you should GET OUT a.s.a.p. Thats IF you don't want to get your heart broke (AGAIN)!

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