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philip and priscilla annamalai

by Priscilla Annamalai
(durban,kwa zulu natal,south africa)

I have been married for of 21years in august but my husband and I have been separated for the pass 9 months due to him having an affair with a younger woman named shivani.His name is Philip he wants to come back but something is stopping him. He is always hurting me I don’t know how much of this can I take please help and pray for my marriage I want him back
HOWEVER he wants to come back only if I put the house on rent and we move into a flat with our kids we have 2 children Rendell 20 and Lucinda 13. He said he has bad memories of our house
And he does not want to live there anymore. I am so confused I do know what to do and the children are not too happy about this move please advice on what I should do.

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Sep 11, 2009

Response to "philip and priscilla annamalai"
by: Lee Baucom

Priscilla, I'm not sure I can give much advice on your question. It seems you are caught between your husband's desire to move and your childrens' desire to stay. Since I don't know what your husband's "bad memories" are about, I don't know whether this is a fair request.

I would suggest that an issue you don't mention is your husband's taking responsibility for his affair, and him taking action to prevent that from happening again.

I am concerned that the "blame" may be shifted to you and your unwillingness to move as the reason you are not together, rather than the fact that he was unfaithful.

In essence, the two of you are needing to rebuild being a unit, a WE. Since this is a major point of my book, you may find some help there.

Blessings to you!

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