Keep praying and listen for God's answer he knows what is best for you. You must let go of everything and give it over to Him. Trust Him with all your heart and he will guide you according to His plan. I pray that He will give you strength and peace during this trial. "The Lord is good to those whose hope in him, to the one who seeks him; it is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord." Lamentations 3:25-26
husband by: Kathalene
Rachel, your situation sounds very similar to mine. I too had a second marriage, and we fought right after the honeymoon. Even after the divorce and two years later, we get along and we are friends, but I miss him. I love him still.
The decision to leave him was mine, and I think it was the best thing to do, but I just didn't want to divorce him. I went to church all the time, and I prayed everyday for guidance and for peace.
I prayed for peace for him too.. and now things are settled.
I will pray for you and your family. God always works things out for good. We just can't see it right now.
Somtimes letting go is the hardest thing to do, and you don't want to admit a second failed marriage, but sometimes we have to. God will be there to guide you, keep your face always towards the light and do good for the Lord.
Rachel by: Ann
Rachel,
You have done well and have been honest in your marriage. However, as you stated, your husband has not. I know how important it is to have a good marriage, one based on truth and honesty. But, if your husband continues with his negative and abusive behavior, you must think of yourself and your child.
Keep praying and asking for God's guidance. He will show you the way but understand that His way may not be what you want. But, I've noticed in all matters that pertain to the heart and soul, He will give you what will last and it will be just right for you..