My heart goes out to you in this difficult time. It sounds like your wife is very confused. The distraction of a third person makes it very difficult for your wife to make a sound and real decision. Trust that God will help her see clearly. I pray that you find strength and patience. Time will heal all.
I will pray for you
Wendy
For Steve by: Anonymous
I will keep you and your wife in my prayers. What you're going through is difficult and I think, happens more than people know.
It sounds like your wife still loves you but is torn between her feelings for you and the other man. Perhaps, too, she is feeling the "empty nest" syndrome that affects many women and men. This causes psychological problems and when this happens, the person feels "hyper"--wondering what to do next.
Also, she could be going through a mid-life crisis--anxious about how the rest of her life will go, or what she should do...
Perhaps counseling might help your wife; help her to get back on track--to see what is most important in her life--and that would be her marriage.
Hold fast to your faith in God, yourself and in your wife. Keep doing positive things for yourself and family and keep praying to God for help and guidance.
I hope your wife returns and that your life will continue on, even better.
Don't give up! Good results could soon be coming your way..