How does one cope/deal with rejection? My husband of 18 years have left our home for an alcoholic, self harming woman, he is the 8th man she has devoured in a short space of time.
Do I let go? this woman disrepect me all the time by telling me great details of the relationship.
I am truly sorry you have to go through this kind of pain. Nobody deserves this kind of treatment.
I often wonder what's happened to the definition of marriage these days. When people get married and stand before God and the world, they say they will stick it out in the good times and bad times. That they will be true to their spouse.
Do people really mean what they say? How can people make vows, knowing in the back of their minds that they'll just "get divorced" if things don't work out. What's up with that?
Rejection, I don't think there's anything that anybody can say that will make you feel better about your situation. I think we can all agree how unfair it is to you, yet that doesn't help you.
The only place you'll find the strength, wisdom, and peace you need is in Christ. He will never reject you. He will never treat you badly.
Immerse yourself in the Word. Read about His plan for your life. Find out what He says about how to live your life.
Find a Christian church that will surround you with Christian friends who will support you during these tough times.
And mostly, find a Christian counselor who can help you sort all this stuff out so you can make some decisions about how to move on with your life. Making right decisions about your life has to be your top priority.
Don't wait, get started right away. God will be there right beside you to help you find your way.
Blessings,
Karen
Both sides by: Wendy
It's kinda good to hear the other side, I say this because we need to be wise in how we deal with these emotive issues.We know see the tricks that are employed these ungodly women ie faked miscarriage etc.
My sister was a mistress,then became the wife, if he was 10mins late home she would be on the phone checking where he at, there was never any trust in the relationship, as she knew the games and tricks they played previously, in the end the lack of trust destroyed the marriage...... there's a prayer point right there, let insecurity, division, mistrust,confusion be their portion, the sinful are not suppose the have peace that is only for the righteous.There are huge consequences for adultery that's why God said thou shall not!
support by: Nadine
Also stay away from this women and pray for both your husband and her. She has a problem so don't let her misery become yours. Tell her to have a nice day and smile. THE DEVIL IS A LIAR....I hear on the radio yesterday from a pastor who always gives his word of the day "If you go on ANYHOW God will handle your SOMEHOW"- Pastor Buddy Haines III.
Surround yourself with positive people.
Why????? by: Nadine
Why would you even bother to write in response to this womens cry for help? Is that not beyond selfish? While everyone does have their own opinon, I'm sure everyone who visits this site is quite awarte that this is a Christain Site. We are not here to add to one's pain, and heartache, but to uplift, support, and encourage in a Godly manner. LOVE true Love is not selfish, does not lie, does not hurt. If you truly cared for this man regardless of your own personal feelings or issues with yourself, you would let this man go to handle whatever it is he needs to handle with himself and his family. I will pray for you on so many levels. I found out in January that my husband was also sleeping around and while typically I am a strong person who can handle whatever is thrown at me and pretty much have my whole life. That was one of the most difficult things I have ever faced can you imagine crying every night for almost 6months, while still trying to forgive him, work, and be a mom to two boys and a dog. NO. Ms. Anoymous if anything do not do this to yourself (it seems to be the only person you are seriously concerned with)I beg you, because you always reap what you sow (that's in the good book). And to the women going through the pain "Justice must be done, but it must be left in the hands of God or the authorities by God." "All wrongs will one day be set right by God who sees both bad and good; All motives and all deed will then be fairly judged and understood."-D. De Hann
Rejection by: Anonymous
I feel for Jade. Can I come from the opposite angle,I am involved with a married man, he has two young children and a beautiful wife,they are totally innocent in all of this. We have been living together for two years, his wife doesn't know fully. But I simply cannot give him up, I've never loved anyone like I love him. I recognise that I maybe needy and have emotionally played games a few times when I thot he would go back home. Told him I was pregnant, faked miscarriage, spent months trying to get over that, whilst he pour more and more love on me. I don't know how or why............
