seperation and a harden heart/fallen out of love

by dan cooney
(chandler, arizona)

My wife and I(pollie and dan) have been emotionally seperated for several months and physically for three.I have continued to go to christian councling(pollie stoped shortly after accepting jesus) God has been really working in my life and I am so happy to restore my relationship with him. The biggest problem wow were to start......I guess its sin....why else does any marrige fail. Inmaturity,selfcenterness ect. are two that we are both guilty of. I don't know why but I feel God can restore our marrige.....and I think I'am the only one friends family and even one of our councilers say get on with life......but I feel no matter what I must keep wearing my ring and have faith that all things are possible(we've signed no papers yet filled out though). I know that I cannot push for divorce as God does not want that. My wife however? My problem though is the limbofeeling, its just plain hard at times..