Keep praying for him and let him go so God can deal with him. You must love him enough to let him accept 100% of his consequence just as the Lord does. The devil is destroying him but you cannot fight this for him. He has to find God and do it for himself. You can point him in the right direction by showing him where he can get help preferably Christian counselers. I have found that when the devil takes hold of them nothing you say or do matters to them only giving into that sinful desire. I just had to let go and completely remove myself from the situation because the problem was too big for me to solve. I am letting God take care of it. It has been 6 months, and I am still waiting. But God is faithful to the ones He loves and I truly believe that. He will do what is best for us, it may not be what we want but in the end we will be happier for it. As women we always want to nurture and take care but sometimes that is the worst thing an addict can have because it keeps him from being accountable for his actions because they can justify it as a disease that they have no control over. With God there is nothing you cannot conquer he is just going to have to find that the hard way but he will be better for doing it. Just surrender your burdens, problems and fears to the Lord and let Him take care of you.
Shelly by: Anonymous
Shelly,
Keep praying for your husband. Don't give up but if you find that he continues with this destructive lifestyle, seek professional help and begin thinking of what you want to do, should he want to go a different path.
There are options for you concerning your future. A professional can help guide you toward a better and more hopeful path.
Don't give up; seek first God's counsel and then continue on.
