Stepping Over The Line

by Shirley Peter
(Atkinson NE. USA)

I have another question that I would like to go out to your readers and members.

When do we step over the line when we are trying to point others in a better direction?

To explain a bit, I have gotten into hot water more than once for trying to help someone in some area that I have faced a difficulty, but found out how to have victory over it.

People seem to want sympathy more than they want change. I can understand that, also having been in that position myself, until the Lord opened my mind and heart up to hearing others out.

My intentions have never been to offend, but many are offended when they are told that a solution is entirely their choice.

So how far do we go when others share a problem with us? I always risk the loss of a relationship in order to try to help another, but wondering if I am going at this all wrong?

Should we just listen, encourage, and not share what we know?

Just want to get some others input on this if possible. It's ok if I get negative reports also because I have learned to take what I can use, and let the rest go.

Thank you much.

Shirley.