Stop talking and write it down
by isobel
(south africa)
I tell people who are complaining :
1. Think the "complaint through"
2. Consider what the solution is
3. Submit the request for the solution to Father God
4. Go onto doing what you are capable of doing and wait for the answer.
It has worked for me - with a business that was going under; a child who was on drugs; a property that would not sell; depression and burnout - all at the same time! The change came when the grumbling stopped. It sounds harsh - but complain for 40 years, or 11 days - as you prefer - the circumstances will change when you do.