UNDERSTANDING YOUR HUSBANDS INSECURITIES AND HOW TO HELP HIM.

by Karien Jafta
(Ennerdale, JHB, South Africa)

Dear Rev Lee

My name is Karien Jafta, I am a born again christian for 8 years now. I am married to my husband for almost 7 years.

I was very interested in modeling since I was a little girl. When I got saved I stoped modeling and studied for a pastor at my previous church. When I got married I left my church and followed my husband.

I know what God created is good. He is the artist and the potter. He gave me a gift of outer and inner beauty. I have been focused on inner beauty for the past 7 years.

It layed on my heart to start modeling again, I've entered Mrs. South Africa 2010. My husband said it is fine. But last night he came with a scripture from the word on not focusing on outer beauty but inner beauty.
What must I do. This competition is very important to me, but I dont understand these strange messages my husband sends me. What is it he want to tell me? I dont intend to change as a person. I'm still involved in childrens ministry in the community. I just dont want to burry my gift, Satan have stolen my youth and God is giving it back to me. I feel young and happy and full of inspiration. After I prayed about it, I saw change in my husband. But I want to understand him, what he is going through and how I can help him without him even knowing.

Kind Regards.