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Whining Co-Worker

by Shelly
(Chicago, Illinois)

It's really hard to work with somebody that whines constantly. I know because I have to work with someone who looks for a reason to whine and complain.

Things aren't perfect at my place of employment, but there are other places that are alot worse.

When this person starts whining, the rest of us usually ignore her. Sometimes it gets really bad and we just tell her to stop whining.

She usually denies that she's whining, but when everyone else agrees she usually stops for the moment. Then she sulks for the rest of the day.

It's a cycle that gets repeated over and over. I don't know if there is any help for this person, but it sure would be nice for the rest of us if she would just stop altogether.

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Oct 20, 2007
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Whiners Need Counseling
by: Tonja Brown

Be simple and direct. Tell her that constant whining in the workplace is a distraction, drain and just a plain downer for others in the workplace.

Suggest she seek counseling, because something ain't right with La Chicka.

Sep 25, 2007
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Whining co-worker
by: thelma

Shelly, I can appreciate what your concern is, for I think we have all run into, or worked with people like you have stated, who whine, and are habitual complainers.




It becomes a way of thinking, and they don't even realize that they are doing it...it is a mind set for them.




They are unhappy people who are discontent.




This also can come from the enemy, Satan, and by coming against that spirit, in the name of Jesus, and commanding it to keep quiet. Jesus has given us the authority to do this,
a sort of "power of attorney" to speak in his name, against the power and spirits of the enemy.




Keep bringing it to her attention, the negative way of her thought patterns, and if she will accept it, pray with her about it. If she won't, then you pray for her alone.




God bless,




thelma

Sep 25, 2007
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Be thankful
by: Anonymous

Honey, I would suggest that since nothing has worked to just learn to accept her as a whiner, and be thankful to your self that you are not in her shoes as she must be a very unhappy individual. When others won't change what we don't like, we have two choices, learn to live with it or change our environment.

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