Who is suppose to be the finacial provider?

by Esmie
(california)

I have been married ten years and I have been waiting patiently for my husband to become the financial provider or at least bring in 50% of the income necessary to survive. We have two boys and He has not been able to financially provide. It wasn't until this year when I ended up in the hospital, that he realized he should be responsible for supplying an income. At this point I'm afraid it might be too late. I feel like leaving him and I keep fighting thoughts of divorce. I feel depressed and I feel anger towards him.What's worse is that everything he has tried to invest in in order to bring in an income has failed. all the extra money I make goes towards his investments or his big boy toys
We have not had a family vacation and he does not like eating dinner with us. I'm falling out of love quickly. Please help