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Why my huband complains about everything?

by Alena
(Blountville, TN USA)

Well I have been trying to be a Christian woman and be positive for my kids and my husband. It tends to turn into mayhem when my hubby complains about everything. If its not his job, its the house, its the neighbors around us, its the cars that we have to keep up. Its the money we don't have to buy stuff to keep up with the (Jones')I have tried all things from arguing (hows that workin for me!) its not!. To ignoring. To trying to find out why he's complaining and hating his life so much! To Rebuking him out loud and in quiet. I'm a stay at home mom and I admit my faults were just as bad as his. But God told me to be happy in him. And that if we wake up praising his sweet name. And give him the Glory. How can we go wrong. Even when its the hardest thing ever to walk away from the mayhem. I know God is going to be there. Do I fight this battle everyday? Yes! Do I get frustrated? Yes. I deal with my complaining husband everyday and still praise Jesus! That is how I get thru it. With out God I have no hope. I know God has a plan for my complaining husband and God will fix it. Until that day. I can choose to fix me and stay in the Lord and praise is sweet sweet name.

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Aug 26, 2009
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WHY MY HUSBAND COMPLAINS ABOUT EVERYTHING?
by: Anonymous

Dear Alena

We know that Satan is out to destroy and kill. If he can kill your marrage, he'll be happy. The battle is not ours, but God's. We have all the authority in Christ Jesus to rebuke the work of the enemy.

These signs tells me your husband is having depression. Now I know many people do not except depression, but it is like any other illness. It is caused by worring too much. So you must identify these signs and find ways to sow positive seeds in his life on how to deel with it.
I know depression, I had it for 4 years, only after 2 years I admitted it and then God could heal me.

According to statistics, more men commit soicide than women. The word of God tells us "our people are perishing because of a lack of knowledge". Equip yourself with knowledge so that you can be a pillar to him. To him, it is already a lifestyle because he doesnt understand his condition. You see his brain is giving too much off a certain chemical that causes sertain behaviours, sometimes it leads to soicide.

Also check your house. Clean your house by praying and ask God to show you everything in your home that have evil spirits. You will find that these fairies and african arts and chinese goodies in your house is manifesting, that's why you cant get breakthrough in prayer(when we continue having it in our homes, we become guilty of Idolatry - wich we know God is a jeolous God and wants us to serve only Him). Go to the word of God and study these things so that you can have conformation through the Holy Spirit.

You see, we have all the authority, we must start using it. you will find people gave you gifts with wrong ententions and you keep it in your home and those "goggas" operates in our husbands and also in our children. Bed weating, strange dreams, kids seeing things, talking to emagenary friends is signs of manifestations / check cartoon charactors aswell.

I can testify of all these things I had to remove. Today my 13 year old daughter is headgirl at her school. She gave her heart to Jesus and were baptised with the Holy Spirit. She leads a Teen Bible (interdenominational) group that consists of 60 members, they were all lost but know are found. This all because of aubedience towards the Word of God.

Stay strong, pray, trust God and know aubedience is better than sacrifise.

Jesus is the Way

Aug 25, 2009
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complaining husband
by: Anonymous

I think you hit on the right thing. Focus on yourself and your relationship with the Lord, your personal growth as a wife, mother and helper and allow the Holy Spirit to use your life as an example to your husband.
Be encouraged, He who began a good work in you will complete it!

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