Women's Submission

Hi Karen,
I am a young woman growing in the Christian faith, but I was not raised in the faith so I am struggling with women's role in God's Kingdom. Specifically, the idea of submission to husbands and men in general. I understand that the marriage relationship is a reflection of Christ's relationship with the Father, but I am still struggling with why God chose men to rule over women? It makes me feel that He views women as less- less smart, not as capable, not as strong. I have been through much, and I am far stronger than most men I know. I am not saying this from a pride standpoint, just a statement of fact. I am not, sadly, a delicate flower that needs guided. It makes me not want to get married at all.

Sincerely,
Erin